Sometimes when we travel we meet white person after European after middle-class living the exact same story we are. Live and work in Australia. City hop through South East Asia. Find a beach to lay on, or a bar to drink in. It's all been done, as the song says! Our story starts sounding stale.
But there are a couple of things that I have to remind myself that exist outside of our current situation:
First, there are sooooo many people back at home living happy, healthy, and blessed lives. It doesn't include snorkeling during the day and beer at night, but instead it's packing the kids' lunches in the morning and tucking sleepy eyes into warm beds at night. There are family reunions and new girlfriends and growing pains. There are tears and fears, but also lots of love. We give up being involved with all that
because we travel, but it's just as valid of a life as the one we're living out here on the road, and
I WANT TO HEAR ABOUT THAT LIFE. Tell me why you love your new fiancée, what recipe you've really started to master, what thing in life you are most worried about. Tell me your struggles and conquests. Tell me all, because my blog is not even remotely valid without knowing your stories too.
Second, you find the darkest and most interesting stories in the most unexpected places. One of our favorite new acquaintances that we have made since traveling is a woman who cringes and weeps at the thought of anyone giving so much as a gentle swat to animals of any kind. Fifty years ago, she traveled the world with a friend, from London all the way down into the Middle East, where they wound up in a drug den by accident. This woman who is impossibly modest and proper has a whole wealth of amazing stories from her whole life that are waiting to be heard.
I WANT TO HEAR THOSE STORIES. I want to hear the
extraordinary. I am continually surprised at the depth of people and the stories they hold so close. Tell me about your 9-5, but also tell me about the time you lit someone's hair on fire because he said he needed a haircut.
I'm so psyched to hear from you. Feel free to leave stories in my comments, send me personal messages to my email (and let me know if you need that address), or catch me online with Skype or any other means. I'm looking forward to your stories, because I sometimes get tired of my own. We all have such great stories just waiting to be shared.
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