Wednesday, October 21, 2015

OZ9/9: Robyn Falls, Arguments, and a Lot of Climbing

The next morning we were up at a reasonable hour (the three were hung over, which pushed the wake-up time out, but Jojje and Gwen NEEDED to touch rock again, so it was not too late) and headed up the trail.  We spent the best part of the day on climbing, headed to Robyn falls, which was a lovely straight-down falls that had shrunk considerably with the dry season.

Joe gives the climbing a go to great success!
Robyn Falls and Joe
When we got back to the campground, Gwen and Jojje had some lunch and then took off again to climb some more, not bothering to invite us.  I wasn’t terribly disappointed anyway, as I needed some time away from them.  Joe and I agreed to head in to town with the car to fill up water and have some time to ourselves.  Marco appreciated the afternoon of napping he put in.

Joe and I appreciated the alone time to talk through things.  He was kind and gentle in pointing out that it was the time of the month where I turned into a monster, and he tried to be supportive and patient about it.

We filled up on water, gas, and ice cream (hey, we really needed the ice cream) and then went for a short drive around the town.  First we stopped under a bridge because we saw giant flames.  We walked out to where they were and saw that a sugar cane farm was being burned.  We didn’t see anyone tending the fire, but I’m sure they were keeping an eye on it somewhere.  They burn the sugar cane to clean up the fields, kill pests, and restart things.

Then we headed off on a side road and at the end of it found a gorgeous memorial for local soldiers.  I don’t remember now if it was for a specific war or if it was just for any of the local veterans from any war.  It is true that the United States has some serious affection for their troops, but I think the ANZACs are very comparably loved by Aussies.

The place was immaculate.  We saw a man moving sprinklers in there and we asked of he was the caretaker.  He said yes, so we complimented his lovely work.  It really was impressive.  The grass was super green and edged to absolute perfection and the bushes were trimmed I swear with a laser.  We walked around and around, surprised that a graveyard could impress and relax us as much as it did.  We watched the sunset over the back wall and reluctantly got back in the car to head back to the campground.
Joe and Marco being silly in the creek during wash-up
That night when Gwen and Jojje came back, we all sat around the fire talking about what we would be doing the next day.  It was Gwen’s last day before she flew back to Sydney late the next night.  Marco said he was excited to see Litchfield—the park we were on the edge of.  He assumed we would be spending the whole day exploring it before we got Gwen to Darwin.

There was an argument that started, however, that seemed very unfair.  Gwen and Jojje wanted to climb more, and then between themselves had agreed they would go to a hot springs in the morning and whizz through the rest of Litchfield very quickly.

They were harsh on Marco when Marco objected that he wanted more time in Litchfield.  We had spent the WHOLE DAY devoted to their beloved climbing addiction and it seemed unfair that they would off-handedly assumed we would climb more the next day and then sit in a hot springs that we hadn’t agreed on.  Each of us had sort of had our own things along the way that we got to do—I had Coober Pedy, Gwen and Jojje had climbing and King’s Canyon, Joe had just been on board with everything (he got excited about all of it), but Marco hadn’t really had anything all his own yet.  And when Marco put up resistance to the climbing and hot springs idea in favor of doing as much of Litchfield as possible, Jojje’s response was to criticize him for not having researched the park.

The whole thing was unfair.  Gwen and Jojje had obviously been feeling bonded by climbing and were siding with each other in this attack on Marco.  Sure, Marco didn’t plan ahead and often made us late getting out of our campsites in the morning, but we all had caused delays.  Jojje’s attack for Marco not having researched was fully hypocritical, since every time we had gone climbing the whole trip, Gwen and Jojje knew nothing about the area and were frequently reading necessary details on the climbing site as we pulled up to it last-minute.  Not only that, but their off-handed idea to go to a hot springs that they were so arrogantly fighting for was entirely unplanned.  They didn’t know where it was, what it was like, how to find it, nothing.  They had just heard a rumor about it and suddenly the plan was gold.

I could have bitten both of them.  Marco has his faults, for sure, but he had proved to us many times that he would give you the shirt off his back, his last penny, or anything else he had.  He is a truly good human being and it was like Gwen and Jojje had bonded together as the “cool crew” and were picking on the nicest dude in the whole school.

So I formulated something to say, forcefully, to make it understood that we were on Marco’s side.  I tried to keep emotions out of it and I think I did okay, but if no one else could tell, I certainly could that I was emotionally involved, because I could feel my face flushing and my hands shaking.  Nobody puts Marco in a corner.

Gwen and Jojje felt their popularity bubble burst and we all agreed on a plan.  They would get up stupid early to go climbing again, while we packed up the rest of camp and were ready to go by the time they got back.  They agreed to dispense with the hot springs idea in order to devote more time to Litchfield.

We went to bed and set alarms, all three of us realizing how important it was that we meet the packing deadline in the morning because our argument was at stake.  Gwen conveniently decided that she should sleep in Jojje’s tent that night instead of Marco’s, since she and Jojje would need to both be up so early.

I had a hard time falling asleep, which had the benefit of letting me listen in on Jojje and Gwen as they went to the creek for a midnight swim.  I don’t think anything happened between the two of them, but I could tell that this was like the first step towards something more than friends.  From one girl to another, I could tell where her interests were.  I was sad that she was never successful getting something started.

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